Rants and ravings of a semi-autistic developer who has a hard time remembering idiotic nonsense details. Why remember it, when you know where to find it.
([\w\.-0-9]+company.com)(?:"|/|<)
find . -name '*.xml' -exec perl -ne '@x=m!([\w\.-0-9]+company.com)(?:"|/|<)!xsmgi;print join("\n",@x), "\n" if @x;' {} \; | sort | uniq